Just a slingin'
Evan has been having a rough transition to being two and to his Daddy (who hung the moon and stars in his mind) getting a new job. It's been a rough two weeks as a result. But I learned something new... Evan, who never much liked the sling, is a different little boy after just ten minutes of being strapped to Mommy in the Mei tai. I think that says how far he has come attachment wise! Being close to me centers him and calms him... that was once, even a few months ago, not true. Since we're taking about slings, let me tell you how I came to have one. ;)
Because I'm generally one of those crunchy/granola types who does things like cloth diaper, garden, and can, it is no surprise that I got in to using slings with my children. Actually, I think most of my real life friends used them for their babies so I was very used to the idea long before I heard it was good for attachment when adopting a child. So I knew that I wanted a sling or wrap or two before we even got Miriam's referral. Being cheap thrifty, I wasn't about to pay $60-100 for a piece of fabric. Not while I have a sewing machine, the Internet, and a fair amount of know how. I got online and in no time at all had the materials needed. Then I decided on what to make. I found some great patterns and instructions online and it was hard to stop. By the time we actually adopted Miriam, I had made two different ring-slings in the Maya Sling style for her, plus a wrap in the Ellaroo style. I liked them... still do. I've found the Ellaroo best for smaller infants who stay put for awhile or for long term hip carry. I love the rings for Kangaroo carry small babies, and for hip carry when you need to be able to take the child in and out often and/or quickly. As Miriam got older I really needed a comfortable way to carry her long distances or for long periods of time.. preferably on my back... enter the Mei tai. LOVE my mei tai for just that purpose. Recently, I made yet another warp with a friend in the Mody wrap style. I think it will be wonderful for a very young baby. (And NO, I am NOT pregnant!) It's given me the "bug" again, I think I need to make another sling! :D Seriously, how can you have too many?
P.S. Here is a great place for wearing instructions, and here is where I get most of my patterns.

I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE my
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE my slings. And I agree, they are a little addicting. I've made a Mei Tai, a cradle type sling, and a couple of wraps . But the Mei Tai is still my favorite because of how easy it is to use and I can use it on my hip.
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I used a sling with Candace for a long time. My sewing skills are a little weak, so I bought a ring sling from www.sleepingbaby.net. I love it! I carried Candace all around China and for months after it. When she was feeling insecure, should would ask for it. She is a little chunk now, and weighs 33 pounds. My shoulder just about falls off when I carry her in it, now. For a while, I bought one for every new baby that was born. Sadly, I don't have too many baby wearing friends and family members, and they turned out to be a waste of money for them. They just don't know what they are missing!
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